Can't Get Out: Valentine's Day at Home

With the cost of things costing more, spending Valentine's day at home is a viable option. Plus it's very romantic. No matter if the kids are home or they are getting time with grandparents for an overnight, this can be a fun opportunity to personalize Valentine's day for your significant other. 

The kids

If you've got little ones in the house, they probably already have a fairly early bedtime. Perfect! Just put them to bed at their regular time and start your evening after they've fallen asleep. For older kids, have them choose a movie or two and set them up with snacks and a show in another room. Tell them you'll ground them from video games till summer if they interrupt you. Or, if you're lucky enough to have relatives nearby, see if they'll take your kids for a few hours (or overnight!).

The prep

One of the benefits of staying in is not having to wear uncomfortable shoes all night, but my yoga pants don't exactly say "hot momma." So I try to find a happy medium. Shave those legs. Trim that mustache. Pluck that nose hair. And THEN put on the comfy pants. Maybe just choose a nice stain-free shirt instead of that frumpy sweatshirt.

The mood

Candles, flowers, and no visible toys are all you really need to set the mood. 

The meal

Does your Valentine have a favorite dish that doesn't get made very often because it's too spicy for the kids/ takes too long to prepare/ has too many expensive ingredients for a family meal? Now is the time to dig out that recipe and make it just for the two of you. 

Don't have a favorite in mind? It's hard to go wrong with a couple of steaks. My hubby makes the very best marinade ever:

Serious Steak Marinade

Ingredients:

• 1-1/2 cups olive oil
• 4-1/2 Tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce
• 1-1/2 Tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
• 3 Tablespoons red wine vinegar
• 2 Tablespoons Montreal steak seasoning
• 1 Tablespoon crushed garlic
• 1 Tablespoon garlic-pepper blend

Directions:

Combine all ingredients. Pour over steak, cover, and chill at least three hours to overnight in the refrigerator. Grill or broil steak to your liking (just know that anything over medium-rare is considered "charcoal" in many parts of the country).

Keep the rest of the dinner light with a nice side salad and a glass of sparkling cider or your favorite wine.

If you aren't up to making a marinade, you can use something as simple as Italian dressing and let the steak rest in it for at least 2 hours in the refrigerator before cooking. 

For dessert, I can't think of anything better than chocolate. Pick up something decadent from the local bakery or try this slow cooker recipe:

Slow-cooker molten mocha cake

Ingredients:

• 4 eggs, lightly beaten
• 1/2 cup (1 stick) butter, melted
• 2 teaspoons vanilla
• 1-1/2 cups sugar
• 1 cup flour
• 1/2 cup unsweetened cocoa
• 2 teaspoons instant coffee granules
• 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
• 1/4 teaspoon salt

Directions:

Spray a 3-quart slow cooker with cooking spray (you can use a larger slow cooker; just add 30 minutes to 1 hour of cooking time). Stir together all ingredients in a large bowl. Pour into the slow cooker. Cover and cook on LOW for 2 to 2-1/2 hours, or until set around the edges. Turn off the slow cooker and let stand for 30 minutes (keep covered). Serve warm with vanilla ice cream or whipped cream.

If you aren't up to cooking and want to do something special, you can think out of the box. 

Depending on your budget, consider these options. 

Order in:

Heart shaped pizza 

Door Dash your favorite dish from your favorite restaurant

Pick up something your love, loves at the grocery store, or your favorite restaurant. 

Easy Meals: 

Something easy to cook like chicken strips, pizza, pasta, nothing says love like spaghetti, think Lady and the Tramp. 

The movie

So. Many. Choices!!! We bet one of these will make you swoon while you snuggle up on the couch:

Cool classics